About
20s // they/them/their // PST/PDT timezone- lifelong learner- blanket hoarder- milk tea maker- autistic- bisexual and queer as fuck- a Pink-C-3 on the attraction layer cake- submissive bottom- potential service top because I support Bottom4Bottom and Sub4Sub and love to learn skills- T4T is love and healing šā
Into
- enthusiastic, open, and honest communication before, during, and after sex or play- affection- trust- voice- scent- praise- affectionate condescension/bullying- being made to beg or repeat after you- service (sexual, domestic, administrative, kink topping)- training skills or my body to better serve you- obedience training- hypnosis (erotic or not)- conditioning- teasing (physical and mental)- pleasure control (I canāt touch or experience sexual pleasure without permission and/or you make me experience sexual pleasure however/whenever you want, tying in with orgasm control below)- orgasm control (edging and denial or forced orgasms and overstimulation)- desperation (being brought to such a state)- kissing until weāre breathless, being fully dominated in the kiss- body worship- size difference- being restrained (cuffs, rope bondage)- sensation play (scratching, marking/biting, hair pulling, wax play, temperature play in general, neurowheels and the like)- impact play (ass spanking, pussy spanking, paddling, etc.)- cockwarming
Fantasies
- ābreedingā- teratophilia/xenophilia (monsters, aliens, etc.)- being a beloved, treasured object/plaything/tease toy/pet; being turned into one- being prey (stalked/chased and wrestled into submission)- being free use (particularly around the house or interrupting mundane activities; must be negotiated after establishing long-term trust)- consensual non-consent play (CNC); must be negotiated after establishing long-term trust and heavily planned out- seduction/ācorruption," either gradually or by being totally wrecked by desire/pleasure- religion kink/religious play, e.g. Iām worshiping you, Iām an object of worship, or youāre ācorrecting/cleansingā my sin
Curious About
- rope bondage & suspension- predicament bondage- tickle torture- service topping- boot blacking- latex- electrostim- paddling- flogging- caning- pursuit, take-down, & capture- knife play (very very light? like being threatened but not actually sliced into)- pee control/desperation (not sure that I want it to get to the point of actually wetting myself; I mainly like that itās another layer of control Iām handing over)
Soft Limits
- public play (must be negotiated beforehand)- hardcore degradation (must be negotiated beforehand)- sensory deprivation (depends on where I am in terms of sensory input at any given moment)- breath play (depends on where I am in terms of sensory input at any given moment + would have to be heavily planned)- being peed on or made to pee myself (as above, depends on my sensory levels at any given moment and would need immediate clean-up + lots of reassurance)
Hard Limits
- fetishization of my gender, race, sexuality, or disability- needles- piercing- branding- vomit- scat- pee drinking- toilet